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Fall 2009

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The Barrington Coffeehouse Proudly Presents

 

What The Hell 

Is An Open Mic?

 

Al Pepiak of 'Lost Art' Vintage Musical Instruments 

by Alexander M. Pepiak

 

www.lostartvintage.com

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What the Hell is an Open Mic?
 
The older I get, the more I find that music defines my life.  
Every time I think I am not going to play the guitar any more I find myself playing even more 
and incorporating even more music into my life. Usually these notions of quitting guitar correspond 
with some other tragic happening in my life. A death or illness or some sort of life changing event. 
I never seem to know what triggers it but it just happens.  Then, always as some event tears 
me away, another brings me back. 
This last time, my nephew decided he wanted to learn guitar and bass. So he came to me and 
asked for lessons. He really didn’t want to learn the guitar but wanted to learn songs. He had 
acquired some of the basic stuff from a friend and we used that as a starting off point. We learned 
a bunch of easy songs and had fun playing and singing them together.
Next thing I know, he sees a sign at a local coffee shop, The Coffee Garden ( 57 E Kings Hwy 
Audubon, NJ 08106-1216 (856) 546-6464) and I found myself scoping out the place to see if 
we can perform.  Well, we learned four songs and I thought we could do them well so we 
packed up the gear on a Saturday night and hit the coffee house scene. We played all four 
of our tunes, and they wanted more so we played the same tunes over. Now my nephew was 
hooked and we were learning new tunes to play at the open mic. 
So what exactly is an open mic?  It is a place, coffeehouse, bar, restaurant, etc, that opens 
their floor to performers to play their instruments. This is not anything new and has been going 
on for many years in different forms. In the sixties  open stages provided Bob Dylan and Joan 
Baez places to play,  in the eighties every  bar and restaurant had a comedy open mic, the 
nineties had a resurgence in blues jams and the return to the coffeehouse and the open mic 
for singer songwriters is the current trend. Most places will have a sign up sheet where potential 
performers will sign up and get a spot to play.  Depending on the popularity of the venue, it can 
be a couple of hours or a 5 hour extravaganza.  Some places only want acoustic performers or 
singer songwriters with original material and discourage comedians or other types of performances.
     
The next place we tried out was the Auction House 100 West Merchant Street in Audubon, 
New Jersey, auctionhouseevents@gmail.com 856-546-7755.This venue is in a historic bank 
building in the borough’s downtown section. It also houses monthly auctions, hence the name. 
The open mic is run by Russ Edwards, on Wednesday evenings from 8-10 or after the last 
performer has taken the stage. The venue has a professional sound system and stage and 
can comfortable fit around 150 people. Although the open mics do not draw that large of a group, 
it is a nice venue and receptive of all types of music, be it original or cover material. Russ runs 
the night differently than most open mics. He does not call up the individuals in the order in 
which they sign up. This allows Russ to choose who may follow a not so strong performance 
or to keep a certain theme or mood going. Some performers do not mind this but it also is 
a source of anxiety for others who are performing for the first time or not real comfortable 
playing in front of people. 
The longest running Open Mic in South Jersey is at the Barrington Coffeehouse. 
This venue is JAMMED every Thursday night and is host to some of the best pro, semi-pro 
and amateur talent in the area. It is not unusual to find some very talented songwriters and 
performers there. Many travel a distance to perform on their stage. 
Although small and sometimes cramped, the atmosphere is electric every week. There are new 
people all the time and some regulars that keep the place going. The owner, Scott Trifeletti 
calls it the “Wide Open Mic” and it truly is. New Jersey magazine listed it as the “Best Open Mic “ 
in New Jersey. “Trif” has been a staple on the Philly/South Jersey music scene for a while and 
when his family took over the coffeehouse, he did what he could to support the local artists 
and give them a venue to play their music. He is a huge music supporter and fan and encourages 
original music.  It is not unusual for Trif to sit in on guitar or drums through out the open mic. 
The look of joy on his face as he plays the drums is something you just have to witness in person. 
                                    
 
I contacted Trif to ask him some questions about his venue and the whole open mic scene in general.  
Alexander M. Pepiak: How did you get involved in hosting the open mic?
 
Scott Trifeletti: It started out as something to do on Thursday nights and soon turned into something 
more, a commitment that I made to the previous owner and his evening customers, many who 
eventually became personal friends. It was partly my wife’s idea and I never pictured myself a 
host though it seemed someone had to do it right. There really wasn’t enough places to play 
original music for the longest time and I’d been to the few known open mics that were in the 
Delaware Valley area over the years, most all of them gone today perhaps partly because the 
hosts were running the shows like they were torturing their own captive audiences, manipulating 
the stage with overbearing agendas and such. As someone uncomfortable with cliques, capitalism, 
and even dreaming while sleeping for that matter, I figured there was opportunity for real 
reform if the chance ever came along. There are certainly some songs we can all sing together, 
we just needed a good location outside the (Philadelphia) city limits. Where else can you go to be 
surrounded by like minded people respectively who love their music so much they’re as compelled 
to learn how to do it as you are about your passion? The format gives excellent access for writers, 
singers, musicians and performers to attract and meet their likely supportive public at street level. 
We’re here to hear each other! Before any kind of limited local social music networking site, with a 
beatup acoustic guitar in hand, pro enough sound gear to deliver reasonable quality, an easy walking 
distance from my house and over nine hundred CD’s still boxed and unsold from my debut release 
to give away free (now out of print), shop was setup in my own hometown with “build it, they’ll come” 
risk. They may have been previously operating the open mic every other week with rotating hosts 
but it was unfocused and uncommitted with the owner hardly even there.  This could easily be better.
Luckily, there are a few other very talented performers around town, right here in little Barrington 
with similar stories…coincidence? Though some of us may have even picked up a lot of moderately 
tested musical theory, organizational and leadership skills over the years, we can still be unprepared 
for the weekly juggernaut that keeps any good open mic so interesting.
 
AMP: What do you as a coffee house owner want to accomplish with the open mic night?
 
Trif: The open mic is a crucial leg in our table, we just want to keep our heads above water, maybe 
make a little to invest back into the business and have a great time with everyone doing it. 
Our goal is to provide a first class listening and performance arts venue to coincide 
with a comfy homestyle gourmet café. We’ve pretty much achieved this heading into our 
third year since taking the business over, with plenty room for improvement ahead. Artists 
from all over the globe play here every weekend and I’m not surprised to say that the local 
scene here is equally as entertaining, and it’s really spiritually rewarding to help bring these 
noteworthy local artists to light. You can’t help but notice a great act when they get to the mic, 
they hush the room, which gives them a perfect chance to audition for a featured weekend show. 
We’ve been able to keep the open mic famously free, which accomplishes something all together 
different from the Friday and Saturday night shows where there’s a real chance to make a few 
bucks playing your songs for about an hour instead of only two open mic numbers, we don’t even 
take a cut of the cover charge. As a host and venue owner I’m just looking to support the arts and 
improve access to the stage for everyone. Wide Open Mic overflow has worked it way to Wednesday 
nights which have become popular with acoustic songwriters circles and music workshops, they can 
even be more fun than the open mic for some folks as they’re mostly unplugged and a bit 
more intimate. 
AMP: How many people usually show up on an average night? What is the lowest amount? What is the most?
Trif: The venue only holds about forty folks comfortably and there are twenty lines on the sign-in sheet. 
The likely scenario is a soloist with a friend or a duo act but most folks who come alone to play are here 
to meet up with friends too. Sign-ups start, in person only, at 7:30pm and the show runs from 8pm Thursday 
to into Friday morning sometimes. The sign-up sheet is full about 80% of the time, three quarters 
about 15% and half full maybe less than 5%.
  
AMP: How do you encourage accomplished musicians to show up?
 
Trif: Primarily, by making an honest and professional environment for them in which to  thrive. We seem 
to have just found each other but I’m sure there’s many more out there, even just in the surrounding towns 
alone. We were blessed pretty early on when a great crop of players began playing every week. There’s a 
couple of other open mics that have recently sprung up within only a few miles from here and this has opened 
up more places for these fine musicians to jam several times a week, meet more hiding in the woodwork, 
and expand each others’ networks . I’m also convinced that it doesn’t hurt to have just installed a state of 
the art Bose 802 Panarray speaker system that’s perfectly Hi-Fi for this smaller room, as well as the cool lil 
Roland V-drum kit that gets setup every Thursday night, perfectly produced rhythm sounds with a volume 
control vital for acoustic music. Bass and drums are nice to have on hand because most artists are bringing 
guitars. I’ve witnessed over the years some of these great players transition into electrifying their favorite 
acoustic guitars…last of the breed. 
AMP: Did you ever have to ask someone to leave the stage, and why?
Trif: If someone’s oblivious to their allotted stage time, the audience will let you know right away when 
the third song starts. I hate doing it, but I might try to bum rush the mic before the song gets launched 
with a ‘thank you for that wonderful set…’ but only had to do it once or twice in a long time. I’m the worst 
for it, in any mood and I get inappropriate laughs out of some of the most annoying stuff, so it gets crazy 
often. The creed of the open mic is to let it happen, unscrewed with, and just because folks don’t want to 
hear it doesn’t necessarily mean it’s not going to get a six-minute slot. The next act to take the stage 
very soon may very well be worth the wait, such is life We’ve all started from somewhere, so let’s 
give them some slack but if it appears the offending person should probably know better, like they’re 
drunk, I think I’ve maybe stepped in once so far for that particular offense and maybe had to cut 
someone off for cursing too much twice.
AMP:  Talk about being NJ’s #1 open mic and how you got to be there?
Trif: Wow, what an honor! It’s really a special combination of everyone involved. We do what we can. 
There’s no formula, just a basic ethic and a place to finally test it. I’ve been running this show every 
Thursday night except Thanksgivings for going on seven years now and it’s been a lasting pleasure. 
I probably have over fifty thousand digital open mic pix on my hard drive by now…great memories. 
There are new open mic pix posted on the website from time to time, part of July 2009 are up, 
both nights had the coolest vibe! We even released an ‘Open Mic Friends’ CD a few years back which 
certainly helped bridge this living breathing music community we now share. Everyone from dedicated 
singer songwriters to the uncommon music lovers alike from all over Jersey and beyond are seeking 
quiet listening rooms, rather than bars and parties, to really hear a good song or at least hear a song 
“good”. A dynamic open mic in the right room is really kinda magical. We even had stickers with a 
cool homemade logo on a sea of guitar cases in every corner. The tag has a good name, right from 
the start…WIDE OPEN MIC! More inclusive sounding, I hope? The capacity is just right for an intimate 
amplified sound, crisp with CD quality on the selected custom house sound system. (Mounted overhead 
for best dispersion). These easily overlooked details, all added up to really make a significant impact, 
like that it doesn’t matter where you sit it all sounds pretty much the same throughout the room. 
Many of these fine folks are casual gearheads on some level, whether acoustically or electrically, 
firewood (guitars) are always getting passed around, there’s usually someone about who can provide 
first class accompaniment on request and a bunch of regular folks just might start singing harmony 
with you at any given moment, you got to stay in tune. There’s a kind of engaging family here after 
all these years and there really isn’t any exclusive cliques, all kinds of music, everyone’s welcome. 
This is a family run business. For me, I had to find a certain rhythm to run one. Don’t try too hard 
to produce and direct, worry more about the engineering. Update websites, send out the emailer 
every week, print out the weekly sign-up sheet (I’ve saved every one) write and/or learn a new 
song by 7pm, get camera ready, show up late, setup while saying hello, remembering one’s tea, 
play a one song soundcheck…make it good, get saved by a handful of trusted technical minded 
musicians sitting next to the mixer and be ready at any second to unsuccessfully take control 
directing this random chaos now created as the night is turned over to your waiting guests by 
humble applause. I’ve been told I’m a good host but I don’t really know what makes me different.
 
AMP: If you could change anything with the open mic what would it be?
Trif: Not much! Can’t ask for much more, it wouldn’t fit! We’re just going to keep on doing what 
we do. I think it’s wonderful that individuals have posted websites with info on open mics in the 
area. More free advertising of the arts is essential. I’d love to build an actual stage someday 
but there’s something very personable about performing at the same level as your audience, 
sitting at the table right in front of the monitor. With the red curtains closed in the background 
and the hot glow of the lights, the stage is all setup (LED lighting’s on our “to do” list).
As nice as things were before being selected as the best open mic in the whole state, new folks 
who heard about it are now flocking to the coffeehouse and enhancing the enjoyment even more 
than could have ever been expected. The secret ingredient for any open mic is open listeners, 
they’re always appreciated. Many acts warm-up outside anyway, when you ride by you know 
there’s live music going on, we’d all be thrilled to fill the place with more listeners at times, 
to get the word farther out about how great this local scene is! It’s challenging to sit with your 
friends and not get loud once and a while. One thing might be that a bigger room would let the 
talkers in the back off the hook but it also takes them out of the main event as well and enables 
separation, nobody here wants to play while conversations are going on. A little coffeehouse 
noise is to be expected but the helpers know to only turn on the cappuccino machine between 
songs. It’s a bit of a trick maneuvering around the tight quarters but it’s all part of the packed show. 
Everyone’s pretty cool though and the regulars at least are fairly respectful saving the noise for 
between acts. The magic really happens when everything inside is stopped in its tracks by a 
great performance. Man…what more can you ask? 
 
AMP: How do you handle folks that are not even ready to perform at an open mic?
Trif: Well, first off the rule is to be in tune with song in hand when walk up to the mic, we’ll 
scramble with the mic placement and getting you plugged in. I’ve had to turn down offers 
for featured shows until they were ready and some have proudly risen. I’ve seen several of 
those so-called rookies now hanging with those well healed seasoned players. At the open mic, 
a couple of us get up regularly behind any act who wants accompaniment, full keyboards, 
bass, drums and lead guitar, it’s fun for the players to improvise an unrehearsed song and 
rookies have gotten quite a lot out of it too, week after week. Don’t give up when it doesn’t 
work out the first time and perhaps not everyone is made for the stage but that doesn’t mean 
you can’t sit back and be a part of the night. You have to feel folks out and be as honest as 
you can in a respectful and friendly stageside manner. We handle it by putting up with it and 
giving them encouragement. 
AMP: What would you tell someone who wants to start doing the open mic circuit?
 
Trif: There are possibly websites that document the open mics in your area, if you Google 
‘open mic jersey’ it should be easy to find us. Every night of the week there’s likely an open mic 
around somewhere. Don’t be shy to go and visit some of these area venues, leave your guitar 
in the car, if you may just want hang out for a while and observe the scene. We just had a nice guy, 
who comes to many featured shows, come out to the open mic this past Thursday and knocked 
everyone out with a great solo performance of his own, who knew? 
Be prepared to sit around awhile and not talk about yourself too much but don’t let that stop 
you from asking about everybody else, you’ll make friends fast.
 
AMP: In an act of shameless self promotion please give you web address and contact information.
 
                                        
Scott ‘tRiF’ Trifeletti
The Barrington Coffeehouse
131 Clements Bridge Road
Barrington NJ 08007
856.573.7800
www.barringtoncoffeehouse.com
contact: skatrif@comcast.net
Yes, the Barrington Coffeehouse is New Jersey’s best Open Mic. The most endearing aspect is 
the welcome feeling you get from Trif as he introduces the acts and encourages the performers 
and the welcome feeling from his daughter and wife behind the counter serving the drinks and 
food stuffs.  There is no substitute for truly nice individuals.
 
So, you want to get playing again, perhaps you had something happen in your life where you 
gave up performing and want to put it back into your life. Look up you local open mic scene 
and start up new friendships with musicians and like minded individuals.
 
Al Pepiak has been performing and buying and selling vintage instruments almost his entire life. 
Check out his music on myspace,com/lostartUSA or Lost Art on facebook. 
For interesting musical gear check out www.LostArtVintage.com
You can always get in touch with him at alpep@lostartvintage.com.

 

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